[Bree]

I need help now! My guy friend and I are really mad at eachother, and we are like best friends. Its a long story, but to make it short, he wants to beat up some kid in the band that is new, and I told him that its not going to solve anything, and he thought I was taking the side of a guy I have only known for 3 weeks over him who I have known since 1st grade. Then he said some really hurtful things. I am open to talk to him, but he hasn't called me or gotten online or anything. I don't know what to do.

Waahoo, why don't you try and get the two of them together? Maybe one night after band practice. Explain to the two of them about how you feel. Tell the new guy that he needs to lay off the verbal abuse, because it's not a redeeming quality. Tell your old friend that he still is your friend, he has to realise you are allowed to take another's side at times. And you are making the new guy feel welcome by befriending him, you're not blowing your other friend off. Let them both know that their disagreements are not helping with the band, especially since they are both in drumline, and so it's not only having a toll on you, but on the entire band. If they both care about you, as friends should, they'll wise up and try their best to get on. If not, just tell them that they're not to bring their problems to you, that they have to sort them out themselves, and away from band practice.
And you don't sound pathetic at all. You sound like you want to do what's right. :)

[waahoo!]

i would do that, but the new guy is one of those guys that likes to talk trash and stuff... I did tell my old friend that them fighting is affecting the whole band, but he just thinks I'm a stupid girl and I don't understand how guys think. He says they don't "talk" about their problems... I think I won't get involved, just if either of them needs any help they can come talk. He just gets so mad when I don't take his side! Grrrrrr i hope things do turn out ok though

[Mistress Maerad]

Good luck in whatever you choose, Waahoo!!! I go with what Bree said, and my only main point of advice is to: Stand up for what you believe in.

My, my, we all are having relationship problems....:(

[Rocky]

Hey people!

Jeez, I haven't been on here since June... :p

But, I just bought The Singing, so I thought I should come back to the old haunt.

Sup?
xx

[Mistress Maerad]

welcome back, Rocky. :) I hope you enjoy The Singing!!!! Then you can discuss it with us all on the Singing Spoiler Thread. :D

[Bridie]

Ohhh you guys this is weirdd....

So my house is all new down stairs is open plan so i can sit on my sofa in the living room and see the kitchen. Yesterday I was sat on the sofa and out of the corner of my eye i thought i saw someone walk across the kitchen. It could have just been a trick of the light tho, and i was rly rly tired, so i dismissed it since i looked back and no one was there.

My twin brother stays up really late, till like 3 or 4 on his xbox, playing COD4 and chatting with his amigos. He's convinced he saw someone walk across the kitchen, he even called out and said hello is anyone there. He got up to look around the corner you can see around from the living room. No one there.

So now im like WTF new houses dont get ghosts! :( but its weird and freaky and stuff... :(

[Mistress Maerad]

scary.......:eek:


Have you ever gotten that feeling that, when it's dark and you're turning out all the lights and walking up the stairs, someone is following you? Or when you're alone in the house or something, or even with a lot of people, someone's watching you?

I hate that feeling! It's like the hair on the back of your neck stands up....scary....


anyway, on a lighter note:

After a cumulative time period of 4 hours, I have, to my pleasure, finished the harmony part for my version of the Lay of Andomian and Beruldh. As soon as I can work out how to, I'll post it up for comments and criticism. :)

(P.S. I know it's a duet so doesn't really need harmony, but this sounds cool. :D)

[Fallen-Petals]

Wow strange!

When i walk up stairs and the light is off and the bedroom doors are open I feel that some one is watching me! its spooky

[Bridie]

eeeeee i also get that feeling & its 100xtimes worse now i think we have some sort of ghost.


my brother suggested that someone is living in the house with us and we dnt realise. apparently it happened to some guy in japan XD

[spring]

And what happened to the guy in japan:(