I couldn't agree more.
Just a few words from me: Stars In My Pocket... is one of the most beautiful books ever written. It's a fascinating (though not an easy) read from the first to the last page. There are almost no descriptions of sex in it (as well as in Trouble on Triton) and Marq's love is not for dirty but for bitten fingernails .
The final 20 pages contain the most emotionally intensive text I've ever read.
Delany's best book after Dhalgren.