Kat, I've been waiting for your long post on the subject..
I think I might be interested in such books where relationships
I'm tempted to accept the challenge. Looking at the lists, I'm not sure there's a single prominent SF book from 1987 that I've already read. However,
I think Martin's UK publisher replied on twitter to someone saying that it is unlikely that TWOW will be published in 2015.
I totally can't check this, but could it be The Hypnoglyph (1953) by John Anthony (John Ciardi)? Probably from A Decade of Fantasy and Science Fiction
Thanks, farseer2, that's a good site.
Interestingly, I happen to have read all of the ones from my year of birth apart from the Sturgeon: