I finished the
First Law trilogy yesterday and, very unlike myself, I have not decided to read anything else. I didn't enjoy
The Last Argument of Kings as much as I had the previous books, but I think a lot of that is due to the very different way I approach life and the way Joe Abercrombie seems to. I shoulda known just by his pictures that he would be trouble for me

because he has a smirk. I don't even know how to properly smirk

. I could feel that smirk all throughout the last book. Now, I actually prefer tragic endings to happy ones, because tragic ones make me think and identify with the characters a lot more. The endings for the characters were all rather devastating in different ways, and I really liked that.
But there is such a coarseness to Abercrombie's presentation of this world and the characters, whereas I am emotional, look for deep meanings, and not cynical (although I acknowledge the crappitude of circumstances and people). His world seems real, yet not one I want to occupy. I want to think about his characters and I am moved by their fates, but not necessarily moved by their lives. I know I enjoyed the books, yet don't want to read anymore.
I think you're going to enjoy Joe Abercrombie's latest book, Best Served Cold. It's happening in the same world and the main protagonist is female. For me, this was the best fantasy book I read in 2009.
From your review:
They react, have sex, urinate, curse and insult like real people, which contribute to the overall atmosphere of the book.
This is part of that coarseness I was talking about. It's not a bad thing, the realism, it's a good thing, but for some reason it has a negative effect on me. I also do not like sarcasm even though it is funny. It's back to the smirk. I can't smirk, nor am I any good at sarcasm. Something about my character I think.
Abercrombie's characters are very real, their reactions and circumstances make sense, he engages my interest and intellect, and I love the way he twists the tropes, but I don't like the characters nor their world, nor the cynical outlook. So I don't know what to do, and have to think on it.