See it's not as simple as saying "authors should grow a thicker skin", if you're a human being, personal attacks against something that is deeply important to you can hurt like hell, and the anonymity of the internet allows people to comment to a degree that (for the most part) you don't find with face to face interaction.
Sure. Sure. The internet is a nasty place. Nobody's disputing that "prong."
I dunno. Maybe you're talking to me, and I'm not trying to be a dismissive dork or something, but all this noise about people being high-strung or sensitive or whatever the term being employed passes right over my head. A book a year is a series fiction standard. It just is. What I can't fathom is a want-to-be author not realizing this in all the reading
they do.
And this is the internet, you have to type stuff into the search box to
find it. If you don't have the stomach for the 1% of negative reviews on Amazon, well, why are you looking? Don't distribute your email address. Way back when, you could request the agent (I presume an agent here, but please don't attack that part of this comment) not send the critical stuff. I mean, it's fine you're a delicate, unique snowflake and all, but stop wandering into the pizza oven and complaining about the heat. What I'm saying is, if you have a low tolerance for cyber-bullying, well, don't do facebook and don't follow your name's hashtag (or whatever those things are) on twitter. Keep your head in the sand. You need to do online stuff, shut off the comments. And if you don't know how to set it up that way---well, don't set it up.
Besides, like all art (and I'll plant the flag firmly here)
everything comes down to (A) society's/cultural expectations and (B) personal taste. "A Modest Proposal" (do I put an essay in quotations?) is objectionable because of the content and our own social taboo about eating children. To hungry hyenas (insert appropriate species that eats its own young here, because I lack the expertise), the story is merely a normal well-reasoned letter to the editor. You may like sentences that are a page and a half long with a thousand restrictive clauses, others may prefer a simple declarative SVO sentence. Neither is "wrong" because it's art, not math. (and the more advanced math gets, the closer it becomes art, by the way).
And as to having a thick skin, one company I worked for and was laid off from, a co-worker (one of five supervisors I had, say) ran around telling everyone what a moron I was after I "left." My consolation is he had to try twice to pass the professional engineering exam while I only had to try one time. Defamation? Probably. Worth getting all riled-up over? Not really.
I guess what I really don't understand is people setting up "fan" web sites, enabling comments and then somehow expecting it to be a love-in. And
then they shut off the comments. I mean, why did you have them on in the first place? Take a look at any book on Amazon, it's generally negative "this sucked" reviews and "this was brilliant" reviews. People who don't really care don't
bother.
(I don't mean to pick a fight here or pick on Ms. Swaindon, I wouldn't know her from Adam--well, I could probably decide which one is Ms. Swaindon if she were in a line-up composed entirely of her and men, but you know what I mean).
--Brian.
I don't know, maybe I'm just being a dork.