But what's with the Caetlyn-bashing? She's not nearly as stupid or naive as Sansa, she's actually quite intelligent, and just really full of grief for her family. I thought her chapters were always good (although far from the best ones).
It's not so much bashing, as the fact that I've never been able to forgive her for how she treated Jon. (Which is another thing that made me mad. Fits right into the topic.

). I know, I know. That was just in the beginning and OH so long ago. I can't help it, though. That fixed her in my mind forever as a petty person. Just petty. I get this nasty half-anger half-loathing every time her name is even mentioned. I mean, how small a person must you be to take a half-formed jealousy caused by your husband's nameless, faceless, probably dead mistress whom he put aside the moment he married you... to take that and put it above the happiness of a completely blameless child? I know it probably makes a virtuous woman of Cat when she fights for her family like she does, but the only thing that does is remind me how she excludes Jon from that counting. (Am I the only one this bothered at all? Seems like... )
I don't understand why everbody hate Sansa so much.
Oh no, not
hate. She's just frustrating and I find Sansa to be a very realistic portrail of a little fanciful girl. I guess the most frustrating thing about her is that most people, even ones that are too young and not too bright, grow up as necessity dictates. Some things in life just
force to stop being self-centered. She's been through so so much and only now, after three books, are there any glimmers of her catching wind of the seriousness of her situation. I don't know. Perhaps the helpless female hand waving is attractive (I'm not a guy, I wouldn't know), but I just find it difficult to believe. Don't know if Sansa is to blame, or Martin.... I just don't like to blame Martin for anything, so poor Sansa get bashed more than she should.
